Do you puke your opportunity on everyone?

I was creating friendship recently on a social site. 

I always offer my services to the networkers who are struggling and need or want my help (This is for the free training I offer. I NEVER talk about my business to them. If they need or want my help they can ask for it, I never push anything on anyone. I had someone ask for some information and I of course sent it. About a day later I got a really odd reply. This person told me she downloaded the book and that now I have her information that I was going to call her and sell her on my business, then proceeded to puke out her business at me and told me how great it was, fastest growing, huge money making program Blah..Blah...Blah. We have all heard the same thing over and over and over. How do you do it? Do you puke your opportunity on everyone? Do you believe that anyone breathing is a prospect. Do you throw anyone you can into your business and then see who is left after the smoke clears?

You don't have to be an expert in network marketing

Actually it is impossible to be an expert on network marketing yourself.

There is just to much stuff to know.  If anyone claims to be an expert they are lying.  If you want to be a leader in network marketing you need to make sure you have a group, a mastermind of people that you can turn to for

answers.  Don't ever lie about an answer so you don't look bad, that is destructive ego and is not beneficial  to your business. Remember you have the hopes and dreams of real people and they are looking for guidance and truthfulness when you teach them.  Having leaders and mentors that bring there specialty to the group is the only way to really be successful in this industry.  So you don't have to be an expert, but you can point to someone who is, on a certain subject.  One of my mentors has been in network marketing for over 20 years.  If I were to ask him a question on how to create back links for my blog so I can get more visits to my site and get a higher listing Google search, he would tell me to go to Don, another mentor, and ask him.  He is the expert on that.  You don't need to be an expert. You just have to know where or from whom you can get the answer.  You need to be a professional pointer.   You also have to have a place or person to point them to.  You cannot build this business by yourself, many have tried all have failed.  The only ones that have been successful or have a real opportunity to be successful,are the ones who have a mastermind group.  A group of leaders and mentor's that are combined and work together, can be an expert in network marketing.

How to induce faith and positive thinking

Faith is a major key in your success

I never understood autosuggestion/self talk as it pertains to my business. I know there have been studies of how and why autosuggestion works but it never really broke it down, or shall i say I never opened myself to it. After talking to my mentor about the use of autosuggestion, and reading chapter 4 in Think and Grow Rich for the 20th time it has become a part of my daily routine.

Learning is an ongoing process

Learning is an ongoing process

It never stops, ever. The day you stop learning is the day your business stops growing. You will not see this happen right away, but as time goes on it will become very apparent. It is the Slight Edge Philosophy--The Slight Edge by Jeff Olsen--. If you have not indulged it that book it is a must for all networkers.

Don't just read a book one time

If a book is really worthwhile and helpful, don't just read the book one time. Read it 2,3 4 times. When you read a book one time you get a snippet of good information here and there, but if you read it more than once you will really start to learn more every time. For example I have read Think and Grow Rich by Napoleon Hill 4 times. I also am on a call every week, write a lesson, submit it to a forum and discuss the chapter every week with others. The knowledge of the 13 principles in the book has increased my understanding of myself in ways I never knew. It has helped my business grow faster and more consistently. You need to take 3 or 4 books and really go through them a few times to get the most out of it. If you are on a book of the month club or 2 books a month, rethink it. Get a couple of books and read them 3 times each before you move on.

Programing your thoughts

Your thoughts are truly things.

It is the programing of your mind that creates the prosperity or lack of prosperity in your life.

If you look at the information that is thrown at us on a daily base you will see the programing in not of a positive nature and your sub conscious retains all of that information and processes it in the same way it comes in, in a negative thought pattern. Most of you watch the news. Test this out next time. Record it news and only watch the positive uplifting parts. Read only the positive sections or the paper and only talk to motivated positive people. You will see that you only watch 2 or 3 mins of the news, read 3 or 4 articles in the paper and talk to 2 or 3 people in a day. The rest is an unhappy, nagging and negative influence on your thoughts.

The positive and negative battle is like a tug of war always battling for dominance.

Four colors that will help build your business

As network marketers we are in the people business and by understanding each other do we really succeed!

Talking to anyone the way we would talk to ourselves will only succeed with those who are exactly like us. That means about 75% of the opportunities are missed. If you want to be a master recruiter for your home business you must first understand the four personality types. Learning and understanding the type of person you are talking to can help explain your opportunity to them in the way them see the world. Here are the four personality types. It is a quick but helpful summary

The first of the four personality types is Yellow.

BUT Yellows more than anything want to help people so emphasize how the products of your business help others in some way, such as health, income, environmental, etc. Their weaknesses are that they DO NOT like to sell, they don’t like pushy people, they are not money motivated, and not really great planners.

The second of the four personality types is Green.

Greens are way too analytical for their own good. They spend most of their time planning and organizing to where they never start anything. They have hundreds of questions which just lead to more questions. In a network marketing business they make great trainers because they leave nothing out! But once a Green commits to something they are extremely loyal.

The third of the four personality types is Blue.

They get bored easily, can be extremely hard of getting ahold of, completely unorganized, and forgetful. You can never get them to slow down to listen to you for five minutes. Blues are fun, outgoing, and instantaneous people, and are moving targets! Blues have a way of motivating others and making things fun! However, Blues always know more Blues!

The forth group of the four personality types is Red.

They can be abrupt, bossy, and fed up with people who aren’t as driven as they are.And Reds have a tendency to think that they are right….always. They don’t wait around for others to show them what to do. The good thing is Reds are leaders. If you sponsor a Red, pat yourself on the back because you got money right there with little effort because your Red recruit wont need you! They take their own initiative and go get what they want.

You can learn more by going to Mentoring For Free and downloading the free
Ebook Success in 10 Steps

It is so much fun to be able to look at some one and pick out there main personality color. Now you know more about them in 2 minutes than you would talking to then for an hour.

"A mentor with a servants heart"
Brian Frank
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What you need to know about joining any network marketing company Part 3

How are the Products?

The products the network marketing companies have to offer are great 99.9% of the time.

  So every company gets a triple gold star here.  I have not run across a company that does not have a great usable juice, pill, food, item that was entirely bad.  So promote your product to everyone. Give it away and let others try it. This is a great way to get people to see your product and can open them up to be a prospect.

If your company does not have a product that is usable or consumable then it really is not a mlm company.

  "What??" you say  "How can you say that??" "I have the best Gifting program ever!!".  Gifting programs or 2x2 programs where you see money only exchange hand or your paid on just sponsoring people are pyramid scams.  So if all the hype is there, again take a step back and ask yourself is there a product or service that I am paying for? If not, run away!
If you are not sure then ask a mentor you can find a free mentor with no agenda  here Mentoring For Free

Brian Frank
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What you need to know before joining any network marketing company------ Part 2

What are some of the things to look for and how to find them

So you got a presentation on a company, and it looks like the best thing in the world.  They told you how fast they are growing,  that making money if you have a big enough dream and talk to your family and friends this will be a breeze.  Oh and the person giving the presentation is a big 4 star universal gem level 6 times over.  He will tell you that he built his organization in a little over 6 months.  I'm exsaturating a bit, but probably a little bit.  you are so ready to sign on the dotted line...STOP.  Take a deep breath.  The same opportunity will still be here next week and if it isn't then you just saved yourself so money.  So as I said in part 1 do some research.

The internet is a great place to do some real research

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You can start by checking this site.  www.mlmwatchdog.com This site tells it like it is about any network marketing company with no hype.
- You will want to do some searches on the owner or CEO of the company.  You want to format the seach like this " First name  Last Name"  press enter.  do not click on the first or second page start about page 4-5 and see if anything shows up.  If nothing bad shows up then mark it good.  Ask this question to your maybe soon to be upline.  "Has to owner of this company built his own organization in any other mlm company.  If he doesn't know then have him ask his upline and so on.  If the Owner of the mlm company has not built his own organization, then he does not know what it takes.  he is a corporate guy and is looking at the bottom line.  Why is this important?  If the company is not making enough money the first thing they will do to stay in business is cut the commissions (your money) to be paid out.  That means you would make less money with more effort.  The network marketing companies that are created out of successful network marketers know what you want and need and will work with you more.

Ask the 10,000.00 question. 

 The question is How many people does it take to have in my organization to make 10,000.00 per month.  Why is this important?  Look at it this way, if you needed 2500 people or 400 people in your business to make 10,000.00 per month what would you chose, if all else was equal.This is very important.  It really lets you know who much is pair to the field(distributors). You can really break it down just by dividing the number of people you need by 10,000.  Example 1 -- 2500 / 10,000 =  4.00 per person on the avg.  Example 2 400/10,000 = 25.00 per person.  That is a big difference.  If you want to know why some companies pay a smaller amount per person you can find out by downloading this free e-book. Free E-book or get more personal help go here - Brian Frank's Free Training 

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Your responsibility is to you.

My Mentor Michael Dlouhy sent this to me.  It is a great rule to follow by in your life and in your mlm business. Its a great read.

People get mixed up about their responsibility in their life.
You are NOT responsible for what other people do. Sometimes someone does something that harms you and you think, "I shouldn't have let that happen."
Not true. You are not responsible. If you try to claim responsibility for something that is not in your power to control, then you actually diminish your ability to control your life. Why? Because deep inside, you know such actions are out of your control. And if you make yourself responsible for something that is out of your control, then you are walking down a losing road.
You ARE 100% responsible for how you react to what other people do. You don't have to be "done in" by anything anybody else does. It is your decision what you focus on. So how you react is always your choice. If you choose to react as a victim, then once again, you are walking down a losing road. The correct choice is to learn from your mistake and put yourself in a position where YOU are in control of the situation, never a victim. This may take some thought, but the solution is always there.
You are NOT responsible for bad things that happen in your life. You ARE 100% responsible for how you react to the bad things that happen. --Michael Dlouhy.

The lesson-  Keep control of YOUR life.  That is the only thing in your control.  When something bad happens to you, respond in the most positive way you can.  Don't follow down the road of victim it gets you no where and the goal is to keep moving forward in your life and business.

Brian Frank
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