I want, I wish, I will, I am

There is a big difference with these 4 phrases.  It makes a huge difference in the way you use them and it will keep you from success or propel you to it. 

Do Something

At Least Do Something

Doing something is better than reading about doing something.  I asked one of my mentors, "What is  a good book or program to learn about speaking or giving presentations?"

The Shrinking Dream

You had huge, inspiring dreams when you were a kid.  You wanted to be an astronaut, or the president.  You wanted to live in a big house with a pool.

What Direction Are You Heading

                                                                                    What direction are you heading?

Most people follow the herd.  They feel it is the safest way to travel.  But if following the herd makes you poor and unhappy, what is the benefit in your life? What is the reason to be on this earth.  I use to follow the herd, because that what I thought you did.  I was never told any differently.  I did not know that I could create something more in my life to be happier.  I also thought that if I kept working day after day that one day I would wake up and everything would be in its place and happiness and riches would be sitting at the foot of my bed. 

5 tips for upgrading your life

5 Tips you can use today.

I have 5 tips you can use starting today.  When I used these tips I saw a huge increase in prosperity and opportunity. 
Perception- Take inventory
DMP- Definite Major Purpose
Thought Process
Change you arena/ Mastermind
Education-----> Take Action
I put this one in video format just because it is easier to explain.  So enjoy and share.

-Brian

The herd mentality

You look out over a pasture and see a couple hundred cows eating grass in the partially green field, lying around in the mud.  
Then you see the farmer go out on horse or tractor and start to bring them in from the fields.  Woo hoo, it's feeding time!  The cows get fed the oats that with make the cows produce more milk than normal, then get milked for all their worth. 
Now they get to lye in their beds a fresh hay and wait for the sun to rise. 

So what does this have in common with you?

Where are you in your prosperity

Where do you stand?

Randy Gage in an episode of his Prosperity TV on You Tube said one of the most amazing things!
"Your perception of prosperity is where you are today."
This is such a profound statement.  We can want and wish to be wealthy, but it is our sub-conscious mind that is the driving factor of our prosperity and success.  The sub-conscious mind does not differentiate from good or bad, right or wrong, wealthy or poor.  It only creates what it is programmed to create.

Small goals for 2013

It takes big and small goals 

A big mistake most people make when creating their goals is that most of them are big.  Now there is nothing wrong with that, you need to have your big goals.  That is the end results of your blood, sweat and tears. But if you look at what you achieved after 30 days and see very little accomplished you get very frustrated (this is where most people quit). Hey, it's the beginning of a new year.

Adding fuel to your business

You need fuel to drive your business

You can have the greatest vehicle (business) in the world, but without the fuel to drive it you have nothing.  Think about owning a sports car, your dream car.  You pull it into your garage and are start calling all your friends to come over a take a look. They ask for a ride and you you tell them you don't have gas for it.  So you run to the gas station fill it up on 87 octane.  It starts to sputter and cough as you rev the engine.

Food for your mind.

A Healthy Mind

The key to success and prosperity is in you mind, your thoughts and your beliefs in those thoughts.  That comes from a Definite Major Purpose. The statement you need to have, memorize and repeat many times a day with feeling.  this will give you your belief.  You also need to exercise your mind just like you do with your body.  It to, needs a workout.  A weak mind will create weak thoughts and the will not help with your success. 

The correct thoughts

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Thoughts are things

This is the most profound statement that I have every heard.  It is in chapter one in Think And Grow Rich and it is the truest statement ever.  In every book about personal development they talk about many things but they all lead up to the way you think.  Your mind being so open to everything it sees, hears and reads is like a sponge. It soaks up every little detail from your day and stores it.  It only allows thoughts to travel to your consciousness that you want to think about.

The compounding effect

Little by little

You won't accomplish your goals in 1 day.  You can't be successful in 1 week.  You probably are not going to go from zero money to a million dollars in 1 day.  To be successful we have to remove the thought of instant gratification and change the way we think to and more prosperous and success minded way.  Success does not come from making one big change.
  It comes from making little changes over and over that have positive effects.  This is one of the keys to growing a large, strong and long lasting prosperous life.  The little changes will never seem like they are making a difference and you will never really see the changes taking effect until you are already at your goal or at least close to it.

Ripples in life 

This simply means that the choices you make today will effect you not just today but in the future.  It could even make a difference 5 years down the road.  That one day when you decide not to read your definite major purpose and decide to go to bed just might mean the difference of success 1 year later.  I know how this sounds, but the most successful people in the world would gladly back up this statement.  So I challenge you to make positive, personal growing and prosperous choices and follow through with them everyday.  Not sure where to start? 

Two books I will recommend.  The key to both of these books are to make a small change, make it a habit then add another change and make it a habit  and so on...

Think and Grow Rich
The Master Key to Riches

Both by Napoleon Hill.

I will help you out with the first thing you can change in your life .... START RIGHT NOW  :)

Keep moving forward!

-Brian
check out my other post Your definite major purpose

Your Definite Major Purpose

The starting point of any success

It is the destination on where you want your life to.  It is the start of the blueprint.  Without it ideas fall to the wayside and dreams are given up.  If you do not have a DMP (Definite major purpose) then you are just spinning your wheels in the game of life.  Success in not just about making money, it has many facets.  Love, relationships, family, friends.  You can sum it all up in one word Prosperity.  But how do you become prosperous?  Well, you need to have a goal, a destination.  That would be your DMP.  A DMP needs to be so strong that you have a burning desire to attain it.  It needs to be so big that nothing with stop you or get in your way.  How do you get one??

When your down it is not the time to quit

We have all gone through this.

Everyone at one point or another  has been to a point where you say to yourself "This is not working!"
Well guess what? That is not the time to quit. It is just the opposite, it is time to push a little harder.  You are at a point of success.  (read the chapter 2 or 3- Three feet from gold-Think and grow rich by Neapolitan Hill)  90% or more will fall into this trap time and time again with there home biz.  It is this time of adversity where the universe is testing you to see if your worthy of your dream.

Failure only happens when you quit.

Yes that is the real meaning of failure. You can look at every success full person in the world, each and everyone of them have gone to the point of giving up, not just once but a few times in their life.  But they did have an advantage.

Are you comfortable where your at?

Are you comfortable?

Satisfied in your present position? Are you happy the way your life is day by day, just doing the same thing to keep things statuesque.  That is a good thing, or is it?  A lot of times we get complacent with the way things turn out.  We are happy and life is moving at a steady pace.  We stop worrying about new challenges because new challenges never appear.  We pay our bills, watch our shows and look to tomorrow as the same steps as today.
Well this will only last for so long.  We can keep the same standards in our life but one thing we need to always realize is that life and the universe is always changing and evolving.  If we don't evolve with it, we to will be on the outside looking in and the challenges that we face at that time will be so overwhelming that giving up will look like the best and easiest thing to do.

Challenge yourself for something better.

Digital Connections and Social Media

The shift in the paradigm of digital connections and social media

I am sitting here this Sunday and took a look around at my 2 sons and myself and I realized just how connected we and others are connected to "smart devices".  TV, computer, I phone, Kindle.  I took a quick inventory on the how many connections the whole family had this weekend. Yesterday started with me and my Kindle reading "Risky is the new safe" by Randy Gage (fantastic book by the way, a must read for everyone and should be a required class in all schools).
 I then worked on my laptop..wireless.  Checked my I Phone for email, bank account and credit card.  watched a show that was streamed to my xbox from netflix. Checked twitter and facebook on both my laptop and I Phone and then back to the Kindle for more reading.how many time was I "connected".....13 times throughout the day!! My 9 year old has an I Touch and my 4 year old loves to play on the laptop "PBSkids.com"  My wife was on the laptop 3 times and her I Phone more than 5 times and uses her Kindle.  All of this would not be possible without the internet and wireless connections.  The shift on a digital connect has increased more than 500% from 5 years ago.  

Do you puke your opportunity on everyone?

I was creating friendship recently on a social site. 

I always offer my services to the networkers who are struggling and need or want my help (This is for the free training I offer. I NEVER talk about my business to them. If they need or want my help they can ask for it, I never push anything on anyone. I had someone ask for some information and I of course sent it. About a day later I got a really odd reply. This person told me she downloaded the book and that now I have her information that I was going to call her and sell her on my business, then proceeded to puke out her business at me and told me how great it was, fastest growing, huge money making program Blah..Blah...Blah. We have all heard the same thing over and over and over. How do you do it? Do you puke your opportunity on everyone? Do you believe that anyone breathing is a prospect. Do you throw anyone you can into your business and then see who is left after the smoke clears?

You don't have to be an expert in network marketing

Actually it is impossible to be an expert on network marketing yourself.

There is just to much stuff to know.  If anyone claims to be an expert they are lying.  If you want to be a leader in network marketing you need to make sure you have a group, a mastermind of people that you can turn to for

answers.  Don't ever lie about an answer so you don't look bad, that is destructive ego and is not beneficial  to your business. Remember you have the hopes and dreams of real people and they are looking for guidance and truthfulness when you teach them.  Having leaders and mentors that bring there specialty to the group is the only way to really be successful in this industry.  So you don't have to be an expert, but you can point to someone who is, on a certain subject.  One of my mentors has been in network marketing for over 20 years.  If I were to ask him a question on how to create back links for my blog so I can get more visits to my site and get a higher listing Google search, he would tell me to go to Don, another mentor, and ask him.  He is the expert on that.  You don't need to be an expert. You just have to know where or from whom you can get the answer.  You need to be a professional pointer.   You also have to have a place or person to point them to.  You cannot build this business by yourself, many have tried all have failed.  The only ones that have been successful or have a real opportunity to be successful,are the ones who have a mastermind group.  A group of leaders and mentor's that are combined and work together, can be an expert in network marketing.

How to induce faith and positive thinking

Faith is a major key in your success

I never understood autosuggestion/self talk as it pertains to my business. I know there have been studies of how and why autosuggestion works but it never really broke it down, or shall i say I never opened myself to it. After talking to my mentor about the use of autosuggestion, and reading chapter 4 in Think and Grow Rich for the 20th time it has become a part of my daily routine.

Learning is an ongoing process

Learning is an ongoing process

It never stops, ever. The day you stop learning is the day your business stops growing. You will not see this happen right away, but as time goes on it will become very apparent. It is the Slight Edge Philosophy--The Slight Edge by Jeff Olsen--. If you have not indulged it that book it is a must for all networkers.

Don't just read a book one time

If a book is really worthwhile and helpful, don't just read the book one time. Read it 2,3 4 times. When you read a book one time you get a snippet of good information here and there, but if you read it more than once you will really start to learn more every time. For example I have read Think and Grow Rich by Napoleon Hill 4 times. I also am on a call every week, write a lesson, submit it to a forum and discuss the chapter every week with others. The knowledge of the 13 principles in the book has increased my understanding of myself in ways I never knew. It has helped my business grow faster and more consistently. You need to take 3 or 4 books and really go through them a few times to get the most out of it. If you are on a book of the month club or 2 books a month, rethink it. Get a couple of books and read them 3 times each before you move on.